I recently joined a Facebook group for pet owners to connect, after I accidentally let the dog out during a storm and she fucking ran away. Then I realized, that shit is like a common occurrence…every time a storm is on its way someone posts on the site a little warning, with advice to lock up your dogs. I just find it so strange that they would run out of a warm, dry house into the cold, dark stormy whether. Our dog Betty, or Nervous Betty as I’ve come to know her, is terrified of storms. She gets all nervy and shaky and really invades your personal space when a storm hits. But, when the opportunity arises, when the back door gets left open and the sky is putting on a light show she fucking jumps the goddamn fence and bolts into the big wide world beyond our house.
Now, I’m well aware that Betty probably just gets so scared she loses all sense but I’m going to make something of her situation here.
Imagine if we all ran into our fears with that same sense of willingness and determination as Betty? Imagine how our worlds would change.
I still don’t know why dogs run into a storm but I know that we can learn something from that. As we approach our fears we have two options- do we run at them, head on, giving them everything we have? Or do we cower in a life of mediocrity, wondering why nothing improves? When we run into our fears we grow, we expand as a human. When we put ourselves in the most uncomfortable situation and get through it, our comfort zone must follow suit and grow with us. It is in our nature as humans to run from our fears rather than into them. But I reckon that we should just channel the courage/stupidity of nervous Betty and want to conquer that fear so badly that you’ll jump the fence.
I don’t believe in being completely fearless. Being fearless sounds kind of cool and I always thought people that seemed fearless were somehow better than me. But you know what, fuck that shit. Fearlessness is overrated.
When it comes to facing fears, courage is what I seek to find within. Courage is what Betty has, because believe me, she’s definitely not fearless.
It’s courage that’s going to get us to run into our fears with grace. It’s courage that’s going to have us follow through with what we said we’d do even when we’re scared. It’s courage that will have us dive into the very depths of the ocean and then swim around with the sharks. It’s courage we’re looking for.
Stop resisting and pushing and start freakin’ embracing!
Resistance never feels good. Fighting emotions never feels right. So now, I’m giving myself permission to be scared. I’m giving myself permission to openly admit when I’m afraid of something. I’m giving myself acceptance.
Find the part of yourself that wants to run into the storm, that is excited about the possibilities of who you could become after you have roamed the streets in the pouring rain, the part of you that craves something that is just out of reach, just out of comfort. Cultivate the courage to run, full pelt, into your greatest fears and watch yourself as you grow, watch your comfort zone expand. Revel in the uncomfortableness, rejoice in your fear, knowing it holds the key to unlock your true potential. Do this and watch your playing field expand, watch yourself reach new heights and experience joy that was not previously conceivable.
Because, what’s sexier than someone who’s fearless? Someone who courageously and gracefully runs into the storm.
If you need a hand searching for the courage that is within you then get in contact. I’m offering a free life coaching session to anyone who wishes to reach new heights. You’ve just gotta be willing.
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